A lot of people are living far below their capabilities.

They are flying too low.

They are struggling through life.

And one very significant reason for this, is a striving to fit into places that they don’t belong.

This is what lends to a devaluation of one’s self; making it difficult to determine one’s actual strengths, talents, and abilities. And utterly, a deep dissatisfaction and emptiness follows.

But, it is a pain that does not have to exist. It is a self-inflicted pain. It comes from trying to force oneself into situations, positions, and groups where you don’t belong.

You should never have to prove your worth or fight to belong.

Unfortunately, before one can go on to reach his or her full potential, he or she must be able to discern the difference between where they do and do not fit in.

• Things begin to change when one realizes that his or her worth is not dependent on inclusion into certain groups or the opinions of others.
• That an inability to fit does not indicate that you are without worth just that you have to search new horizons.

An eagle will never realize its potential among hawks or a swan among ducklings.

So, if you find yourself constantly trying to get people to see your worth, you have to stop.

Love yourself enough to walk away.

To stay is just to continuously punish yourself.

“What is for you is for you, and no one can take it!”

It should never be a struggle for people to see how great you are.

The right people will see it. They will recognize it. They will embrace you completely flaws and all.

The goal in life is to be happy.

Happiness can’t be bought or bargained for, it should come easy.

You have an unconditional value so seek those who recognize and celebrate this.