We face many things in life merely because we are human.

Humanity comes with a host of benefits and thorns, and the stage of life is inconsequential. We all will inevitably deal with two factors, uncertainty, and unavoidable Suffering

Unavoidable Suffering

It’s nice to think of a life that is free of pain.

But unfortunately, that is rarely the case.

Pain is an inevitable part of life as much as joy. Let’s face it we will have to deal with the complexities of pain and life’s uncertainty eventually. That is the curse of humanity.

You Never Have to Walk Alone

There is no justifiable rationale for walking your path alone. There is no reason that your pain should turn to misery and incapacitation.

Once we realize that we do not walk this road alone and others exist to prop, lift, or carry us, our burdens will be lighter as we traverse those paths.

My desire is to be that person and help others find fulfillment in life.

Fulfillment in Times of Uncertainty

What do I mean by fulfillment?

Fulfillment is a serenity, a peace with life, and all that comes with it. It is being able to deal with uncertainty and yet live in a state of repose, knowing everything will turn out okay. Fulfillment is being filled with so much hope that there is little room for emptiness.

Feeling Fulfilled is not Easy.

Fulfillment requires an understanding that life is uncertain, change is inevitable, and you will have pain at some points. It is part and parcel of wearing the skin we are in.

However, true fulfillment comes with the acceptance and the willingness to exert every effort to move forward, progress, and reach despite this knowledge.

It’s a process of getting beyond the uncertainty and unavoidable suffering

Feeling fulfilled is a process that frequently requires going through uncertainty and unavoidable suffering to learn the lessons.

Because growth is eventual, not immediate.

Personal Account of Uncertainty

I once felt that change was a plague in my life. I loathed change. I would freeze up when presented with change, no matter what face it took. But the thing is, my life seemed to change in significant ways frequently, often in short periods.

All I could ask was why? It felt like a bane to my existence.

My Desires

I desired comfort above challenge.

Certainty above growth is the direction I leaned towards.

Consistency is what I craved.

But I was unaware of how much I was being blessed.

Life was choosing me to attend its masterclass to propel my growth in ways unfathomable.

Path Ahead

I still don’t believe that I have a complete understanding of the size of my blessings. I am learning that;

• growth does not occur in moments of comfort.
• Muscles don’t expand in moments of leisure.
• Greatness, for the most part, is born out of adversity.

While our paths and pains may be divergent, the result is the same. Tests and trials strengthen us and improve our agility and acuity. Difficulties come to make us strong.

Some Sage Advice on Uncertainty and Unavoidable Suffering

Peter Sage says, “The measure of one’s success is directly proportional to how much uncertainty one can accept.”

A Word for You

No one is expecting you to lovingly embrace uncertainty.

On the contrary, the expectation is that you recognize uncertainty for what it is but move with the understanding there is always something on the other side. Perhaps what is waiting is more incredible than what was on the side of comfort and supposed security.

So, walk this journey with me. Why not believe there is a possibility of greater fulfillment. There will always be someone there to help you along the path if you open your heart to it. I am growing to believe that wholeheartedly.