Tag: Change

Where do you Reside?

March 14th, 2022
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We all have a place we live, a place we call home.

When one asks where one lives, they often refer to a specific location, country, city, town, or neighborhood.

Today I pose the question that you may look at it in a different light.

I want to know where you reside internally?

Where do you set up your home?

Your Neighborhood (Residence)

“when it comes to emotions, we are designed to feel and experience them all. The only difference is where you live and where you visit?” – Peter Sage (The Inside Track)

We reside in the emotional state where we spend the most time.

So, where do you reside?

Does your listing reflect the truth?

Listing Your Residence

A real estate listing indicates the location and value of a home.

And as an individual, your external (actions/behavior) is like a real-estate listing.

What the world sees is a walking advertisement of where you live mentally.

So knowing where you live is important. Because If your permanent way of thinking is pessimistic, pessimism is your home address. That is the state others will find you in most of the time. You may be able to fool yourself but you will be unable to fool others. Your speech and action will give away your residence.

Visitation vs. Residence

Although we spend most of our time at our residence, from time to time, we leave. We visit other places. We even have lengthy vacations.

The difference is, those who visit always go back to their residences.

So the emotional states they visit or vacation to never determine their total identity/

One positive thought does not make one an optimist.

However, a pessimist is not excluded from having moments of optimism. But the optimist will rise from the pessimistic state and return to where they live.

However;
“If you live in stress and ocassionally visit joy, that’s a very different life to say, living in peace and ocassionally visiting fear.” (Sage 15)

So, I ask, where do you reside?

What is your permanent mental residence?

Because understanding is a powerful beginning for shaping your life into the life you want.

Let’s not forget that the little emotions are the great captains of our lives and we obey them without realizing it. –Vincent van Gogh

How Does This Help?

One can’t know how to change unless one recognizes what needs to be changed.

The Importance of Self-examination

So I Implore you today to take inventory. Look at the state you most find yourself in.
- Are you unhappy a lot?
- Do you want to be happier or more content?
Then you must reframe your experiences. You must choose to spend more time on the positive side of life.

Residing on The Bright Side (Changing Your Residence)

If one looks closer, one will always find at least one positive in a situation.

So the thing to do is to make that one positive bigger than the negatives.

Make it so big it overshadows the negative.

Make that the forefront of your focus.

You will find the more you commit to this the more positive you become. You will find yourself residing on the bright side.

Of course, it’s not as easy as relocating from your physical address. But the transformation is worth it.

When your inner world begins to shift, so does your outer world.
Protect Your Energy

February 26th, 2022

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When we think of energy, fuel comes to mind. In biological/physiological terms, one thinks of a powering source needed to meet our objectives, to get work done.

Transference

As humans, we derive our chemical energy to power body processes from food sources.

Those sources transfer nutrients to us, which our body uses to create energy (ATP process)

However this is not a physiology/Biology lesson. I

Instead, this is about transference.

Spiritual Energy

We all carry spiritual energy. The energy that we travel with is either positive or negative that precedes and follows us.

Some have powerful fields while others have weaker ones.

Nevertheless, we are all subject to energy transfer.

What does Transfer Mean in (vibration) Spirit?

When we encounter others, there is an energy exchange.

Those who are particularly sensitive to energy fields will immediately feel a change upon meeting another person. Others will be affected over time (after spending some time in the company of others). Meaning others rub off on us.

How does this knowledge work for you? How does it help you?

Positive energy creates a mental state and an environmental state conducive to success.

“There’s a direct connection between positive energy and positive results,” Joe Rogan.

So, If you desire success, you must create ideal circumstances to make that happen. So, your aim is to emit positivity to create a more positive space.

“Energy flows where attention goes!” -James Redfield.

To create and maintain that state of being, place yourself in a position to draw more of that to yourself. You must direct your attention to positive things and people.

You must extract yourself from the negative.

“If you ever walk down a path surrounded by negative energy, look for the fork in the path then cross over to the positive side.” Victoria Addino

Protect your peace and state of mind at all costs.

Using Directed Energy to Increase Momentum

If seeking to increase momentum and focus, seek people with similar energies. This may and may not take effort on your part. However, the more positive you are, the more likely you will draw those people to you.

“You draw the people and events that resonate with the energy you are radiating. You attract what you are, so be your best.” Lynda Field

Here is the kicker.

If you always seem to draw negative people or find yourself in adverse situations, you must ask questions.

What are you emitting? We typically attract what we are.

Self-Evaluation Time

If you don’t like what you are attracting or the things occurring in your life, chances are some internal assessment is necessary. Change is necessary.

Remember that if you want the world to change, your circumstances to change, or your outcomes to change, you must become the change you desire from the world.
Detox to Unlock limitless Potential

February 20th, 2022
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When we talk about preparing for success, we are talking about cultivating an atmosphere internal and external to increase the potential of succeeding.

This process is non-negotiable.

Priming the Pump

Some may remember the term to prime the pump.

Those who aren’t familiar perhaps want to know what does the phrase priming the pump means? Essentially it means pumping the water to remove all old sediment and residue before filling your glass.

We must prime the pump to get the best water.

We must rid ourselves of the sludge that clogs up the pipelines and slows down our progress, if not outright stops it. Sometimes this requires a reset or grounding.

Reset and Grounding: Precursor to the Cleanse

Get rid of all the impurities; the impurities of thought and the environment.

Wipe the slate clean.

What is the slate?

Your slate is your mind!

You see, what an individual thinks they become. Remember the power of words.

So as creative spirits, we have the power to call things into existence using our tongues.

Therefore don’t bite the poisoned apple (it’s toxic)

Good Fruit vs. Rotten Fruit

Good fruit arises from good seeds.

Poorly established seeds render rotten fruit or no fruit.

To get rid of toxic elements, you must take yourself through a process of Detox.

What is a Detox?

Detox is the process of purification. It is the elimination of toxic elements that are harmful to an organism’s state.

Why Detox?

Before you can dive headfirst into strategizing and planning you must set yourself up to win. This requires developing behaviors consistent with success ( the right mindset)

So to do this, you must detox.

What does Cleansing entail?

Look at everything you are allowing into your life.

Determine if the seeds that fall into your consciousness’s soil are negative or positive.
- Are those things empowering or destructive?
- Do they charge you or drain you?
- Do you leave with more than what you arrived with?
If those things are positive, empower, drive, encourage, and grow you, then keep them and use those things to improve you daily.

If those things are negative, discouraging, draining, subtracting, or adding nothing, then you must detox from them ASAP.

“What’s the most effective detox program? Distancing yourself from self-destructive thoughts, behaviors, and people.”
― Charles F Glassman

Why the urgency?

The seeds you allow to take root, as they are watered, grow until they are full-grown and almost impossible to root up.

The more you stay around the negative influences, the more negative you will become.

Though you may not realize it, that poisoned seed will poison the entire tree rendering it suitable for nothing.

“Don’t live the same year 75 times and call it a life” – Robin Sharma

Final Words On Detoxing

As you are in the dream building process. Take inventory and take it well.

Examine everything in your life.

Some things will be harder to detox from than others, but there are ways it can be done!

Please take this seriously; your fulfillment depends on it. Give your dreams a chance to live.

A Mind-blowing reminder

In one of his messages, Les Brown offers this very eye-opening story.

He asks his listeners to imagine that your life is drawing to a conclusion. Imagine as you lay on your bed ready to pass from this life around your bedside is every dream that never got its chance to see fulfillment.

Imagine them standing there in all their fury and sadness. because the only one who could allow them to live did nothing or did the least.

How does that make you feel?

So please don’t let your dreams die.

There is someone incredible out there waiting for the vision you hold within you.
Mirror Mirror on the Wall: It Was You After All!

February 2nd, 2022

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Dream Blocker: You

I have given a few of the more significant roadblocks that serve as dream blockers. But, whether or not you have considered it, there are many more things that can block one from living their best life or achieving their dreams

All funnel from one source. Self!

The biggest dream blocker one will ever encounter is themselves!

You Draw: From an Intrinsic Well.

Mindset, distraction, relationships — they all source from you.

You are the common denominator. And, nothing can block progress unless given allowance.

Stick with me…

I am the mother of a lovely little guy who is persistent. That is to be celebrated because persistence begets acquiescence.

When he wants something, he makes sure I know.

He will do whatever is necessary to convince me. If I’m not attentive, he will look, ask, plead, cry, even work for it.

Whatever it takes, he commits.

My Tiny Counter.

My little one loves counting. That little fellow rattles off numbers and equations regularly and incessantly. This is expected because counting is his passion.

Day in and day out, he calculates. He does computations in his head. His affinity gets bigger and bigger daily.

An Account of a Miniature Mathematician

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Yesterday it was particularly annoying. After 15 minutes of listening to my little boy count upwards into the 100,000s, I lovingly suggested a pause. I told him to give his mind time to relax. I gave him options.

He wished to count. I hurt his feelings when I told him to give it a minute. He was almost in tears. Right then I realized he didn’t just like counting, he loved to calculate. Why? because the idea of restriction from his heart’s yearning felt painful. He thought I was taking something from him.

However, he did what mommy said. He took a break.

However, he knew what he wanted to do. After five minutes passed, he returned, saying, “Mommy, I took a break!”

“I’m finished,” he replied!

“Can I count now!”

I answered “okay!”

The Lesson !

I mentioned all that to say; he understood his desire. He let nothing stand in his way from doing what he wanted. Why? Because the desire was heart led.

Back to The Real Deal.

Nothing can be a distraction if your sights are set.

Honestly, if your belief is, achievement is possible, half of the work to establish the right mindset has already been done.

If it is your desire, you will get around people who push and encourage.

If you understand how important your dream is, your aim will always be to form the right relationships with money, food, and yourself.

Remaining where you are will never be satisfying.

Fundamentally, the very foundation of succeeding is examining if you wish to succeed.

Time for Self-Examination.

The fruits speak for themselves.

Mahatma Gandhi said, “Action Expresses Priorities.”

So, if it is difficult to pinpoint why you can’t obtain what you’ve planned to accomplish, keep reading?

If you don’t understand why finishing what you start is hard, don’t stop reading?

Finally, if you can’t figure out why you are stationary, (not the envelope)read further.

Time for You to Take Massive Action.

Sit down with yourself? By yourself? Be honest ?

Answer this question, What do I want?

Don’t kid yourself.

To thy own self be true… because the key to achieving the unimaginable begins with what’s inside of you.
” Not in Kansas Any More?” A Change of Enviroment is a Good Thing!

January 24th, 2022

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Dream Blocker 4: Environment

The road to success has to be paved with more than good intentions. Reaching the goals we set forth requires targeted action.

Therefore, we must put into action what we know to be true!

Endless Blockades

Distractions, a desire to be liked by others, and mindset are all factors that block progress. However, one must contend with more than these few factors to build a solid foundation for making the impossible possible.

So let’s take a closer look, if you will!

Location Location Location: Change Your Environment Change Your Life!

Putting yourself in a capacity to grow is the seed to extraordinary achievement. This often means transplantation.

In other words, change your environment change your life!!!

Environment is everything

Who we are and become results from two factors nature and nurture. That means everything that composes our character and mindset has a lot to do with our DNA. However our success has even more to do with the forces that influence us.

Nature vs. Nurture

Remember, genetic predisposition is not a limiting factor. You can choose to rise above those factors with nurture. And one’s environment is essential to making the long-lasting changes.

What is the Environment?

The environment does not only refer to a physical location. Environment is much more complex. Your environment fundamentally refers to your surroundings; who or what you surround yourself with.

This is important because our environment, will always be a determinant of the level of our reach.

“Your Body adapts to the environment you put it in” – Peter Sage

Put your body in unhealthy situations eventually you will become unhealthy!

Vultures sit with vultures, and Eagles fly with eagles. So be selective about what group you choose as your flock.

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“Proximity is power” -Tony Robbins

Foundation of this Principle: A Journey Taken

I recently sat down to listen to a session delivered by Peter Sage on building your roster of superheroes. In the session, he taught principles that were significant in creating success. As you guessed, one of those principles he emphasized was on selecting the right crowd to run with.

Why? Running with the right crowd accelerates your progression.

According to Peter Sage, this principle is founded on two primary laws; “The Law Conformity,” and “The Law of Resonance.”

What does it Mean?

Essentially, to boost your success potential, surround yourself with higher quality people so that you begin to echo the same vibration and operate at the same level.

GO where people are doing something amazing and catch the energy wave and ride it all the way to the top.

Aim to excel by choosing to be in the room with excellence.

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Upgrade your circle based on your path.

So if you find that you’re not in Kansas anymore, Well that’s a good thing, because,

“Nothing changes if nothing changes!”- Mel Robbins