Life constantly imparts lessons, necessitating swift reflection and course correction. It’s like speeding down the highway only to realize you’ve missed your exit. The goal is to find a way back to where you should be, rather than just continuing. That was the most impactful lesson I learned yesterday.

Yesterday, I realized the importance of accepting our truth and remaining steadfast in it. Don’t let anyone push you into over-explaining what you deeply understand. It’s a waste of time and energy that could be better spent on those genuinely open to listening and understanding.

Alarm Bells

Amid a rapidly developing situation that kept everyone on edge, I decided to offer my perspective based on ten years of practical experience. My perspective was grounded in extensive knowledge, built through years of direct involvement.

I was surprised at the dismissal of my perspective. So, I continued to engage, providing evidence to support my claims, essentially “showing receipts”. However, this did not convince the person I was speaking with. They discredited my input by claiming they had researched it online and insisted I was mistaken. That’s when the alarm bells started going off for me.

Walking Away

While I explained that my perspective was based on extensive experience, they preferred to argue that they had read something on the internet. In the end, it was clear that no amount of evidence would alter their stance; they had already decided I had been wrong. Having realized the futility of my time and effort, I politely replied, “Go ahead, and have at it.”

Let Them Think You’re Wrong

My experience taught me that there’s no need for further words once a truth has been established and supported by evidence. It is wise to let people or audiences come to that conclusion for themselves. Once opinions are formed about you or your presentation, they are unlikely to change. You have the choice to invest your valuable time, which is one of your most valuable resources, in debates and persuasions. Or, you can maintain your position and proceed forward.

You cannot persuade everyone even if you are armed with facts. Remember, some will never see the tree in front of their eyes, even if you point it out. Instead, focus on those who understand and appreciate your perspective. This approach preserves your energy and ensures your efforts are directed toward more productive and receptive audiences.

I redirected my attention to meaningful things that moved my life forward. I chose to move on from the distraction. Every moment spent is a moment invested.