The time of year is upon us where introspection becomes key, and all sights are trained on looking forward.  Although redundant for many, quite a few still feel an urge to develop a stronger resolve to become better in character and deed before the close of the year.

Resolution is theoretically a good practice. There is always something that can be worked on. Pledging to commit to growth is never futile.

However, those who are waiting for a specific space in time to commit to change are setting themselves up for failure. In fact, I wager that those who anticipate the turn of a year to change are probably less likely to commit.

Why?

A desire to grow and improve should be a daily goal.  If we genuinely want to excel, we should be creating goals, and committing to meeting those goals every day. If for some reason, there is no process for growth, then there is an intrinsic change that must first take place.

It takes a certain mindset to develop the right habits which lead to meaningful change. Mindset does not change with the flip of a calendar page.

One must actively work to change how they think.

It is hard for me to admit, but I am in a struggle with myself. When questioned on my progress, I desperately reach for ways to excuse my shortcomings. But, when I take time, sit, breathe, think and really review my daily habits I realize I am not honest with myself.

Things happen. Sometimes life gets in the way. But there is a very wise quote that which carries great weight.

Often times there is no reasonable excuse. I do not need more time. I do not need more resources. I do not need for another year to roll around. I simply need to make a conscious decision to make better choices every day.

I need to ask myself daily, what is important? What can I do today to get me one step closer to realizing my goal? Then I have to focus on that.

Excellence is a result of putting first things first.

Yes, even I cheat myself. I do not put in enough time or focus on the work that is required to accomplish what I set out to do. I choose things that don’t serve me. Thus, I end up a servant to time, to others, and then I lament.

I will do better. Not next week or next year, but tomorrow, and I hope you will join me.

Don’t wait until the next few weeks roll around to commit to grow. Commit to making the right choices today. No more excuses.

When we make the right choices that is when we begin to see our dreams manifest.