There once was a girl in desperate need of true companionship. The world felt much too large and far too lonely, until by chance she met the littlest, furriest companion who, at the very moment of meeting, seemed to know he needed her as much as she needed him. By all accounts, he saved her life,, and she saved his.
They grew together, learned together, and loved together. He was her comforter. She was his whole world.
When the Heart Opens
Then, as life often does, things changed. The very definition of life is change, growth, development, and transition. When love blooms fully and safety no longer feels like something to scramble for, the heart opens. Like a flower, its petals turn toward the sun, ready to receive more of what it was gifted to hold. And so her heart did exactly that. When more is consistently poured in, more naturally flows out; that was simply the way of her heart and the love that now filled it.
One day, that open heart led her to desire another furry companion upon which to pour that love. Whether born of natural inclination or a simple longing to give more, there were now two. There was no lengthy pause or prolonged deliberation, or if there was, it was quickly swept aside by the pull of this new and eager energy.
Two Worlds, One Space
What impact would this new decision have on the one who had always been constant? For one brief moment, brief as it relates to the long measure of time, everything seemed fine. Both appeared to adjust. The first gradually accommodated the sharing of space, attention, and love. The second was learning what all of those things meant for the very first time.
But sometimes difference carries its own impositions and limitations.
They were different by nature, age, gender, and disposition. One was a senior in the community of life, quiet, content, and satisfied to have space, food, attention, and heaps of love. He simply relished basking in the security he had grown into. The other was young, a new traveler in life, an explorer by the very nature of her station.
This made adaptation not only gradual but also heavily dependent on a particular set of circumstances.
The Shift
Then, by the natural processes of life, the one once new was now bringing her own new life into the world, and that changed everything.
Her allegiance had never been to the first, the sentry. Her predestined role bent toward nurturing. And by default, his very existence became a threat — not by action, not by aggression, but simply by being. He was male, from another litter, occupying space. To her, he threatened not only territory but also the expansion of space, attention, food, and love that her newborns demanded. He was the threat. And so it began, a perpetual clash born of pure instinct, a disquieting force that only grew because it could not be quelled.
The Quagmire
The mother, the one once saved by the first, whose heart had expanded enough to become a companion to the second, now found herself in a quagmire.
How does one excise a portion of their heart, yet still honor and secure the one who healed it and made it capable of expansion in the first place? Something so profound and priceless does not simply get set aside.
In that space, she said quietly,
“Perhaps what I had was enough. Perhaps I did not need more to pour into—I simply needed to pour more into what I already had.”
That was a profound insight. And it nestled in my heart as well.
What I Carried
I understood it completely. Pulled by want, by fully charged and unbridled desire, decisions were made without full consideration of their total consequence. Because of that, there is now a battle for peace, love, and acceptance between two that she loves equally , and it is heartbreaking. Both deserve the totality of her love, yet by the pure circumstance of life, that can no longer be fully achieved. The sentry now hides in fear. The one she welcomed now must be restrained, transformed by instinct into a huntress, driven to annihilate the one who posed no threat beyond simply existing.
What I carry with me is this: expansion feels good. The desire to openly shower whatever gifts come with that expansion is natural, even beautiful, and common to all of us. But restraint, thoughtfulness, and deliberate choice about where and how we direct that expansion are equally important — perhaps essential. More is not always the answer. Sometimes the most loving thing we can do is go deeper into what we already have, rather than wider into what we wish to acquire.
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